livin the single life again

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: perth wa

well today the gf and i parted ways after about 7and a half years together, we lived together for about 5 and a half and i got to say its kinda weird being on my own again except for the dog which is still here. it was an amacable parting of ways as we need sum time apart to get our shit sorted and decide what we want out of life, well she knows what she wants but i wasnt in to much of a hurry as i was happy with how things were. so for now i guess i got to stop being hard on ma self and get back to living life.

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

still get to root? Laughing

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: perth wa

j-top paj wrote:

still get to root? Laughing

lol dont no time will tell.

Joined: 11 May 2004 Location: Armidale

j-top paj wrote:

still get to root? Laughing

HMMMM straight to the point i see

Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:11 pm

best of luck mate.... at least it was amicable Wink

only advise i can give is to go with your gut feeling

Joined: 13 Dec 2004 Location: Sunny Coast, Queensland

j-top paj wrote:

still get to root? Laughing

Definately a true retrosexual .... well done j-top armsup

Joined: 07 Aug 2006 Location: NEWCASTLE, NSW

just think no misses to ring you at the pub , what time you coming home Laughing

Joined: 09 Mar 2004 Location: queensland

now you can finally get to wash your rocker covers in the dish washer Very Happy

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

still get to root? Laughing

lol dont no time will tell.

usually you at least got to root a few more times before its made official...
trust me i know Confused

Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:29 pm

bazooked wrote:

well today the gf and i parted ways after about 7and a half years together, we lived together for about 5 and a half and i got to say its kinda weird being on my own again except for the dog which is still here. it was an amacable parting of ways as we need sum time apart to get our shit sorted and decide what we want out of life, well she knows what she wants but i wasnt in to much of a hurry as i was happy with how things were. so for now i guess i got to stop being hard on ma self and get back to living life.

I'm just guessing but was it marriage she wanted.

Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Location: S/E QLD

longlux wrote:

bazooked wrote:

well today the gf and i parted ways after about 7and a half years together, we lived together for about 5 and a half and i got to say its kinda weird being on my own again except for the dog which is still here. it was an amacable parting of ways as we need sum time apart to get our shit sorted and decide what we want out of life, well she knows what she wants but i wasnt in to much of a hurry as i was happy with how things were. so for now i guess i got to stop being hard on ma self and get back to living life.

I'm just guessing but was it marriage she wanted.

Fark, don't mention the "M" word... they'll all get the idea in their head... Cool

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: perth wa

longlux wrote:

bazooked wrote:

well today the gf and i parted ways after about 7and a half years together, we lived together for about 5 and a half and i got to say its kinda weird being on my own again except for the dog which is still here. it was an amacable parting of ways as we need sum time apart to get our shit sorted and decide what we want out of life, well she knows what she wants but i wasnt in to much of a hurry as i was happy with how things were. so for now i guess i got to stop being hard on ma self and get back to living life.

I'm just guessing but was it marriage she wanted.

ya she wants marriage but so do i but im not in a real hurry, but what really tipped it over the edge was my bro gettin engaged last week, his gf and her didnt talk alot although she did bend over backwards tryin to talk, but thats an whole other story Twisted Evil

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: perth wa

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

true that...

Joined: 09 Mar 2004 Location: queensland

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

bingo
oh well more money for the buggy and beer Very Happy

Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: perth wa

ofr57 wrote:

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

bingo
oh well more money for the buggy and beer Very Happy

i work at a brewery armsup

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

that wasa quic edit

Joined: 09 Mar 2004 Location: queensland

bazooked wrote:

ofr57 wrote:

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

bingo
oh well more money for the buggy and beer Very Happy

i work at a brewery armsup

bastard

Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Location: Melbourne, Australia

Its funny how people outside the relationship influence it so much...

I just had a d'n'm with a girl I'm seeing, she wants it official that we are no longer dating and actually going out out to satisfy friends of hers basically.

I said, why change a good thing?

Confused

Joined: 18 Nov 2006 Location: Boganville

lolergram wrote:

I just had a d'n'm with a girl I'm seeing, she wants it official that we are no longer dating and actually going out out to satisfy friends of hers basically.

Confused

Whats bondage got to do with it.

Edit: Sleeping mistakes

Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Location: Melbourne, Australia

Rice_Boy wrote:

lolergram wrote:

I just had a d'n'm with a girl I'm seeing, she wants it official that we are no longer dating and actually going out out to satisfy friends of hers basically.

Confused

Whats bondage got to do with.

LOL

Is that a new term for it? I thought it was SNM or BDSM

Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Location: western shitney

Rice_Boy wrote:

Edit: Sleeping mistakes

cwhat were you thinking about rice?

Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 1:01 am

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

It's more than just a bit of paper to me and getting married does not have to cost a fortune.

Celebrant in a park, friends & family bring plates(with food) & some drinks for the reception.

I have never understood why people have to waste so much money on weddings.

Joined: 26 May 2008 Location: Cobar

bazooked wrote:

on my own again except for the dog which is still here.

Look on the bright side ,you got the dog.

Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Location: Wollongong

longlux wrote:

bazooked wrote:

j-top paj wrote:

so she wanted marriage, and straight away? like what was her hurry? Confused

lol its been brewing for a while now , to us guys its a bit of paper and money i can be spendin on my buggy armsup

, to them well...............................

It's more than just a bit of paper to me and getting married does not have to cost a fortune.

Celebrant in a park, friends & family bring plates(with food) & some drinks for the reception.

I have never understood why people have to waste so much money on weddings.

Agree, way overated. I'd rather put the $$$ towards a holiday. I really feel sorry for people who have to deal with Bridezillas and the like.

Well bazooked, now the dog can sleep in the bed. Very Happy

I wish I could have my cats in bed with me, I'm not 'allowed' to get the dog I want either... The things we humans go through to keep partners happy. Rolling Eyes

It's alot of effort sometimes, but it has to be worth it.

Joined: 20 Dec 2004 Location: Camp Crystal Lake

bazooked wrote:

well today the gf and i parted ways after about 7and a half years together, we lived together for about 5 and a half and i got to say its kinda weird being on my own again except for the dog which is still here. it was an amacable parting of ways as we need sum time apart to get our shit sorted and decide what we want out of life, well she knows what she wants but i wasnt in to much of a hurry as i was happy with how things were. so for now i guess i got to stop being hard on ma self and get back to living life.

Chin up Mate, Might seem hard to deal with now, But give it a tiny bit of time & you probably will never look back Wink

I was with my ex for 10 years (Married for 8) Parted company 4 & 1/2 years ago. The first 6 months I moped around a little, But Being 100% Honest the last 4 years have been the BEST 4 years of my life Very Happy

My time is mine, Do what I want when I want no exceptions, MOney is all mine, Tv is all mine, Beer Fridge & Myself have never got along better than the past 4 years!! Don't get dragged along to the same old rellie bashes with the same old stories being told. I have been on some awsome fishing,camping & 4wd trips. No nagging or questioning what I'm doing, If I have felt a tiny lonely have done dating sites but the 4 chicks I have dated all ended up being a Bloody Headache again. If I feel even lonelier $200 will fill those urges by hired help 20 times better than I would probably pick up armsup

Single Life all the way for me now - Life is to easy that way..
Take it easy.

Joined: 23 Jun 2004

My wifes first wedding cost them 25000 and it lasted 8 mths.

Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:52 am

toaddog wrote:

My wifes first wedding cost them 25000 and it lasted 8 mths.

Thats just crazy.

I love being married its the best thing in the world IMHO, but why waste so much money on one day when it could be used on things you need or want after the wedding.

Joined: 28 Mar 2008 Location: SYDNEY

I agree totally, have two friends who are engaged (thanks guys, putting ideas out there!).

they are broke, ney in alot of debt. but are talking 100 guests at 80-100 each just for the reception!

I offered to make them a spit roast to feed the masses etc etc but no they want the white doves kind of day.

they will be down 15k or more I reackon!

fark that.

a few grand to have a party with, a holiday and your done, still the kind of gathering you only see a few times in your life, but 1/4 the cost.

Im lucky thought, my missus is more likely to go cheap but then we have a big holiday! one day though... not yet!