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Barnsey

Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Location: Cloncurry
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Wed May 14, 2008 11:09 am |
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This is priceless!
Now that I can afford it, my CSA payments have actually dropped $300 a month, with the new CSA scheme.
My ex, who insists on going through CSA, is having a hissy fit about it too.
I've always been willing and able to pay her directly, and I've never avoided the financial support of my kids..............
Every time she's needlessly skitched the CSA on to me, she's finished up with less $$ than I've offered to pay.
Now it's bitten her on her fat bum, big time.
Bugger me, she might have to work an extra day a month to "make ends meet"
Love it!
Did you know that it cost the CSA $5 for every $1 they collect from separated dads?
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bogged

Joined: 27 Nov 2002
Location: Lost in Melbourne.
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Wed May 14, 2008 11:30 am |
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Did you know that it cost the CSA $5 for every $1 they collect from separated dads?
Bullshit, isn't it?  |
standard gov dept bullshit |
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4130warrior
BigHomo4U

Joined: 21 Nov 2004
Location: Watching out for stray buses
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Wed May 14, 2008 12:26 pm |
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Good to hear you've had a win mate. Just don't tell anyone, or they'll think you're shirking your responsibilities
There's a massive thread been going for a couple of years on Whirlpool that I follow every now and then, and it seems more are getting f***ked over than helped. |
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snappytom
Joined: 08 Jul 2007
Location: nth brissy
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Wed May 14, 2008 12:26 pm |
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Yep i had a little win that is until i do a re-assesment and then i will be paying more per month than i take home per week But its all ok i still have all of the marrige debts . Could be worse she has the stress of all my ex assets. Im allowed to see my daughter when ever i want though, 1560kms return and no overnight visits. Domestic violence works both ways its just that only women get believed  |
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DIRTY ROCK STAR
Im here for the sausage!

Joined: 24 Sep 2003
Location: NEWCASTLE
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Wed May 14, 2008 1:12 pm |
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I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT!
not that barnseys payments went down.
but that he was A married and B reproduced.
what drugs was she on?? or was it a he?
how does a camel contact the CSA in the first place??? |
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Barnsey

Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Location: Cloncurry
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Wed May 14, 2008 1:17 pm |
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I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT!
not that barnseys payments went down.
but that he was A married and B reproduced.
what drugs was she on?? or was it a he?
how does a camel contact the CSA in the first place??? |
OK
Odd post.
Did you use your fingers to do that, or did you scrotum flop on the keyboard? |
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MissForby
more than one taco would be interesting.

Joined: 19 Aug 2005
Location: Employment Office
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Wed May 14, 2008 1:21 pm |
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| Barnsey wrote: |
| DIRTY ROCK STAR wrote: |
I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT!
not that barnseys payments went down.
but that he was A married and B reproduced.
what drugs was she on?? or was it a he?
how does a camel contact the CSA in the first place??? |
OK
Odd post.
Did you use your fingers to do that, or did you scrotum flop on the keyboard? |
I vote the flop!
Good on the dads who genuinely want to support their kids. My "dad" used to pay $1.75 a week. Barely enough to keep me in tampons
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4130warrior
BigHomo4U

Joined: 21 Nov 2004
Location: Watching out for stray buses
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Wed May 14, 2008 1:23 pm |
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JESS YOU ARE BANNED FROM USING THAT SAYING!!! |
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HSV Rangie

Joined: 26 Oct 2002
Location: Geelong
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Wed May 14, 2008 2:16 pm |
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yeah mine changed went from 390 week to 385. asshats.
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HeathGQ

Joined: 11 Dec 2002
Location: Gold Coast, Queensland
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Thu May 15, 2008 8:35 am |
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they ignored my assessment of % care and placed 100% on to mum - payments went down by about half I think though, because of my dependant.
We get along, and couldn't give a rats about CSA. |
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TheGatta
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
Location: Melbourne
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Thu May 15, 2008 8:35 am |
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| Barnsey wrote: |
This is priceless!
Now that I can afford it, my CSA payments have actually dropped $300 a month, with the new CSA scheme.
My ex, who insists on going through CSA, is having a hissy fit about it too.
I've always been willing and able to pay her directly, and I've never avoided the financial support of my kids..............
Every time she's needlessly skitched the CSA on to me, she's finished up with less $$ than I've offered to pay.
Now it's bitten her on her fat bum, big time.
Bugger me, she might have to work an extra day a month to "make ends meet"
Love it!
Did you know that it cost the CSA $5 for every $1 they collect from separated dads?
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My payments have GONE UP 8 times what I was paying
Not worried, dosnt come in till July 1 .
It will ALL change by then AND I WILL " FINALLY" get to see my kids  |
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bad_religion_au

Joined: 24 Dec 2002
Location: South Australia
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Thu May 15, 2008 9:55 am |
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hey barnsey, is there a formula or a calculator somewhere to use to work it out.
a good mate of mine is getting shafted hard when it comes to CSA (his mrs claims $0 income despite working full time etc), and he's interested to see if the new formula won't help his situation. |
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Barnsey

Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Location: Cloncurry
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Thu May 15, 2008 10:10 am |
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hey barnsey, is there a formula or a calculator somewhere to use to work it out.
a good mate of mine is getting shafted hard when it comes to CSA (his mrs claims $0 income despite working full time etc), and he's interested to see if the new formula won't help his situation. |
Yes, there is a calculator on the CSA web site, but by now, new assessments should have been sent out to both payers and payees.
It's more complicated than before........but seems to be slightly fairer |
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MereMale

Joined: 11 May 2004
Location: Melbourne
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Thu May 15, 2008 10:23 am |
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| a good mate of mine is getting shafted hard when it comes to CSA (his mrs claims $0 income despite working full time etc) |
This s**ts me big time as they always seem to get away with it, and the people who do the right thing get shafted.
Most prob going to get flamed for this but here goes.
I don't mind people dobbing these people in, as it cost every one who pays taxes. Plus the people who do the right thing, lose out by being double hit. One with taxes and then by CSA, as both are taken out of gross and then you have to try and live on the left overs.
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love_mud

Joined: 12 Dec 2002
Location: Wangaratta
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Thu May 15, 2008 10:47 am |
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| bad_religion_au wrote: |
| a good mate of mine is getting shafted hard when it comes to CSA (his mrs claims $0 income despite working full time etc) |
This s**ts me big time as they always seem to get away with it, and the people who do the right thing get shafted.
Most prob going to get flamed for this but here goes.
I don't mind people dobbing these people in, as it cost every one who pays taxes. Plus the people who do the right thing, lose out by being double hit. One with taxes and then by CSA, as both are taken out of gross and then you have to try and live on the left overs.
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No issues with dobbing in dodgy bastards (male or female) here. |
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mavzilla
Joined: 24 Nov 2004
Location: gold coast
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Thu May 15, 2008 4:11 pm |
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Mine stayed the same , but had to share a funny story. The x misses was gettin her far share via agreed payment per month, got the sads on because i wouldnt put it in the bank on the day she specified and couldnt control me any more. put me in to csa for everythging she could think of and more, so the dude rings me and says you been put in blah blah now we gota collect it for her. Says how much ya been payin?, approx 300 a month i say but what does it say i gota pay on your sheet , bah hah bah hah 10 bucks a week , So i said we better do it by the book then to keep her happy (guess her response) priceless |
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RED60
Joined: 06 Sep 2005
Location: S/E QLD
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Thu May 15, 2008 5:23 pm |
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I think most responsable fathers want to support their children, what pisses them off is that they have to pay the ex..... not that I have a solution for the problem. |
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bad_religion_au

Joined: 24 Dec 2002
Location: South Australia
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Thu May 15, 2008 5:45 pm |
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No issues with dobbing in dodgy bastards (male or female) here. |
yeah good luck with that.
CSA won't do shit if it's the female rorting the system.
above mentioned mate put in a complaint saying that she was working, and that should be taken into account.
they were like "if she doesn't tell us she's working, what would you like us to do about it".
"cross reference it against her tax?"
"we don't have that ability"
"then how did you find out when i got a payrise last time?"
"what, don't you want to support your kids?"
and the chick that's living with me that had centrelink drama, her mum continued to claim child support after she moved out. The chick that lives with me complained to CSA saying that it was unfair that her dad had to pay child support when she wasn't living there.
CSA response... "the case isn't your business"
when she contacted her dad, he complained, and they said "we can't stop payments until SHE tells us that her daughter isn't living at home.
CSA is . useless unless it comes to putting the pressure on dads. |
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bad_religion_au

Joined: 24 Dec 2002
Location: South Australia
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Thu May 15, 2008 5:48 pm |
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| I think most responsable fathers want to support their children, what pisses them off is that they have to pay the ex..... not that I have a solution for the problem. |
force the mother to fill in an itemised statement of where the money goes every month, including reciept numbers... |
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TheGatta
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
Location: Melbourne
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Fri May 16, 2008 7:37 am |
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| love_mud wrote: |
No issues with dobbing in dodgy bastards (male or female) here. |
yeah good luck with that.
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| CSA won't do shit if it's the female rorting the system. |
I beg to differ
Long story short :
I had been paying my Ex 5 times what she was supposed to get ( I did it for the kids - made me feel good, even though the Ex earnt more than 4 times what I earnt a year )
Anyway, she rang child support and said I wasnt paying her ????. ( I was paying by cheque )
Outcome :
They "finally" discovered she was out to cause TROUBLE, and they did a bit of homework on her ( ummmmm, I helped a bit ), and they cleaned her up
Ohhhhhhhh, how I love the Child Support Agency  |
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HeathGQ

Joined: 11 Dec 2002
Location: Gold Coast, Queensland
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Fri May 16, 2008 8:25 am |
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| Mine stayed the same , but had to share a funny story. The x misses was gettin her far share via agreed payment per month, got the sads on because i wouldnt put it in the bank on the day she specified and couldnt control me any more. put me in to csa for everythging she could think of and more, so the dude rings me and says you been put in blah blah now we gota collect it for her. Says how much ya been payin?, approx 300 a month i say but what does it say i gota pay on your sheet , bah hah bah hah 10 bucks a week , So i said we better do it by the book then to keep her happy (guess her response) priceless |
Thats fantastic Mazvilla!!!
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| I think most responsable fathers want to support their children, what pisses them off is that they have to pay the ex..... not that I have a solution for the problem. |
You can arrrange for moneys to be paid into a trust fund for your child(ren). But the idea is to help with the cost of raising the child, so it depends on the financial position o fteh X (ie. remarried and have enough $$) |
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BBM Rick

Joined: 22 Sep 2004
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Fri May 16, 2008 8:44 am |
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| JESS YOU ARE BANNED FROM USING THAT SAYING!!! |
x eleventybilliongazillion!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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bad_religion_au

Joined: 24 Dec 2002
Location: South Australia
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Fri May 16, 2008 10:37 am |
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| love_mud wrote: |
No issues with dobbing in dodgy bastards (male or female) here. |
yeah good luck with that.
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| CSA won't do shit if it's the female rorting the system. |
I beg to differ
Long story short :
I had been paying my Ex 5 times what she was supposed to get ( I did it for the kids - made me feel good, even though the Ex earnt more than 4 times what I earnt a year )
Anyway, she rang child support and said I wasnt paying her ????. ( I was paying by cheque )
Outcome :
They "finally" discovered she was out to cause TROUBLE, and they did a bit of homework on her ( ummmmm, I helped a bit ), and they cleaned her up
Ohhhhhhhh, how I love the Child Support Agency  |
got a contact number for who to talk to then? the drones behind the counter will not do anything. i've got 2 dads that i know of that are being fleeced.
another question is, would they have bothered to investigate if it was YOU not HER that filed the complaint? |
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TheGatta
Joined: 11 Mar 2006
Location: Melbourne
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Sat May 17, 2008 8:10 am |
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| bad_religion_au wrote: |
| love_mud wrote: |
No issues with dobbing in dodgy bastards (male or female) here. |
yeah good luck with that.
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| CSA won't do shit if it's the female rorting the system. |
I beg to differ
Long story short :
I had been paying my Ex 5 times what she was supposed to get ( I did it for the kids - made me feel good, even though the Ex earnt more than 4 times what I earnt a year )
Anyway, she rang child support and said I wasnt paying her ????. ( I was paying by cheque )
Outcome :
They "finally" discovered she was out to cause TROUBLE, and they did a bit of homework on her ( ummmmm, I helped a bit ), and they cleaned her up
Ohhhhhhhh, how I love the Child Support Agency  |
got a contact number for who to talk to then? the drones behind the counter will not do anything. i've got 2 dads that i know of that are being fleeced.
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| another question is, would they have bothered to investigate if it was YOU not HER that filed the complaint? |
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I didnt make the complaint. I just responded to the accusation that I wasnt paying her .
Enough is enough ! After 5 years on " NON STOP " bullshyt from her ( regarding EVERYTHING I did ( in regard to the children, payments, holidays --- and I mean, it was NON STOP ) I had had enough.
And a tip for the newly seperated ---- It dosnt matter how well you get on with your Ex --- KEEP RECORDS !!!!!!! --- on EVERYTHING !!!, and I mean " EVERYTHING " --- Every phone call, every conversation ( regarding children ), every note the Ex leaves you, every sms the Ex sends you, every payment you have made ( AND " DONT " PAY BY CASH ) , if the kids say something that could be relavent ( concerning their wellbeing ) --- KEEP A DIARY ( times, dates, location, witnesses, etc, etc ) because chances are that down the track it is going to get nasty.
I have kept a diary/s since 2000, which a Barristers and 2 Solicitors have seen and there is a common theme in regard to the Ex trying to keep the kids away from me. ( The writings have to be provable though ) They have said, these diary`s are " gold "
With what I have produced to the CSA ( all provable ) you wouldnt believe the " off the record " conversations I have had with them ( and I dealt with a female )
BUT -- Im about to do battle with the Ex in Court again soon.
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jaztaz
Joined: 04 Aug 2007
Location: Pilbara WA
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Sat May 17, 2008 8:47 am |
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I hate hearing these horry stories as I am just about to go through this myself. Mrs & 4yo daughter left for Tassie (long way from the Pilbara) 2 weeks ago. I have no problem paying the assessed $281 per week for my daughter, but my contact with her will be almost non existent. There is the phone of course but thats it other than the trips I hope to do down there to see her. How about this though, my pay just went up $9500 per year but my payments will be reduced to $238 per week when new rules come in after financial year. We do still get on though (at the moment) so I hope she doesn't turn into an a$$hole down the track. As I have found out though, private agreements don't seem to be worth a knob of goat shyt as the relevant authorities still have the final say (from what I can make out of this flawed system anyway). We have agreed on weekly payments, division of assetts, etc, so I hope tha CSA, etc don't f*ck this up as all that will achieve is animosity betweem me & ex, ultimately affecting my daughter. |
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snappytom
Joined: 08 Jul 2007
Location: nth brissy
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| I hate hearing these horry stories as I am just about to go through this myself. Mrs & 4yo daughter left for Tassie (long way from the Pilbara) 2 weeks ago. I have no problem paying the assessed $281 per week for my daughter, but my contact with her will be almost non existent. There is the phone of course but thats it other than the trips I hope to do down there to see her. How about this though, my pay just went up $9500 per year but my payments will be reduced to $238 per week when new rules come in after financial year. We do still get on though (at the moment) so I hope she doesn't turn into an a$$hole down the track. As I have found out though, private agreements don't seem to be worth a knob of goat shyt as the relevant authorities still have the final say (from what I can make out of this flawed system anyway). We have agreed on weekly payments, division of assetts, etc, so I hope tha CSA, etc don't f*ck this up as all that will achieve is animosity betweem me & ex, ultimately affecting my daughter. |
I had a similar setup with my ex. Next thing i know i get a bill from CSA , my best advise is if you can put a little away per week , that way if all of a sudden things go pear shaped you do have a buffer zone .
We had done up a list of house stuff and divided it all up fairly , next thing you know she moved out with all of the agreed stuff plus anything else she felt like, while i was at work
Dont hesssitate in getting legal advise , i didnt bother as i thought all was sorted , cost me big in the long run  |
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bad_religion_au

Joined: 24 Dec 2002
Location: South Australia
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Sat May 17, 2008 1:30 pm |
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| I hate hearing these horry stories as I am just about to go through this myself. Mrs & 4yo daughter left for Tassie (long way from the Pilbara) 2 weeks ago. I have no problem paying the assessed $281 per week for my daughter, but my contact with her will be almost non existent. There is the phone of course but thats it other than the trips I hope to do down there to see her. How about this though, my pay just went up $9500 per year but my payments will be reduced to $238 per week when new rules come in after financial year. We do still get on though (at the moment) so I hope she doesn't turn into an a$$hole down the track. As I have found out though, private agreements don't seem to be worth a knob of goat shyt as the relevant authorities still have the final say (from what I can make out of this flawed system anyway). We have agreed on weekly payments, division of assetts, etc, so I hope tha CSA, etc don't f*ck this up as all that will achieve is animosity betweem me & ex, ultimately affecting my daughter. |
your breaking up for a reason, it was a loving relationship that went bad, THERE IS animosity there. plus most people (fought the urge to say women) are greedy as fawk, so expect the worst.
That really shits me when i hear about the woman moving interstate, say to be with a new boyfriend or whatever.
if there is joint custody, then neither party should be able to move (this is about the kids, not the two that thought it would be agood idea to have them). if one has total custody, then go right ahead and move (total custody is usually granted for a good reason).
also i think it's bullshit that dad's should have to pay child support if, through no fault of their own, they lose the ability to see their kids. |
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